According to the dating websites, getting over heartbreak should be easy. You’re allowed to be hurt for a bit but shortly after your relationship falls apart, you are supposed to have an aha moment and things all fall into place. You discover your true self and are ready to jump right back into a relationship. The whole thing takes a relatively short time. Reality is different though. Breaks ups are hard. And there is no set time limit to heal and get over things. That doesn’t mean you should be wallowing in despair forever either. It means you should be taking the time you need to get over the dissolution of your relationship. So when you are ready for something new, it will be on your terms. That’s why we are here. Our writers will provide guidance through your healing and help you get ready for new and exciting things on your terms.